Another encounter on Twitter has inspired another blog post. This one goes out to all the single ladies.

I tweeted about a lingerie sale, and one of my followers generously, yet begrudgingly, re-tweeted my post saying, “I’m not in a relationship, but I’ll tweet this for those who are.”

I immediately replied to her saying that she didn’t need to be in relationship to give herself the gift of sexy. Eventually I convinced her, but it got me thinking, are single ladies everywhere denying themselves the luxury of lingerie?

Here’s my thought process on the subject: if career counselors advise employees to dress for the job they want, not the job that they have, then shouldn’t the concept behind that theory apply to love, too? Dress for the relationship status you want, not the one that you have. And, yes, that includes sexy lingerie.

If you allow yourself the joy of sexy, pretty lingerie, you’ll feel confident, beautiful and lovely. This self-love and inner (or under) happiness will emanate through your body language, smile and the way you carry yourself. Believe me, feeling sexy and looking satisfied will help you attract the kind of person you have been dreaming about.

So whether you are married, dating, living with someone or living a single woman lifestyle, go ahead and give yourself the gift of sexy. You deserve it.